Search terms: dance, yoga, world traveler, Italian, sense of humor

Like you, I date. I date to meet someone, but when I do, I also am thinking about dating coaching.

I had a date with a gentleman the other day who had many fine things to offer. He was relaxed and a good conversationalist, except he kept returning to the topic dancing. Yes, I like to dance. Why did he keep bringing it up? It continued. I like to dance like I like music. Part of my life, so I rarely mention it. It seems a slapped-on appendage to this guy, and I also suspected he was a poor dancer, learning or ...

Then I looked on match.com today and here are the "popular searches" they list for this week:

dance
yoga
world traveler
Italian
sense of humor
romantic
vegetarian

I got the IDEA that this guy "had read somewhere that women like..."

The Dating Coach says: Be yourself. If you've read something men (or women) like, and then try and work it into the conversation at regular intervals, it will seem that:

You read it somewhere and have a list, and are performing
That it's your obsession, the only hobby (interest) you have
Fakey
Stilted

Need I say more?

As to the "Italian" on there, my field is multicultural. Italian men are very attractive to US women. Not just for the most obvious reason.

Want to learn more? Dating Coaching available. Long-distance, on-site in the D. C. area. Email me at sdunn@susandunn.cc . I have several incentive programs. One of them will fit your needs.