Do You Want to Date an Extrovert?

HOW TO FIND SOMEONE YOU CAN GET ALONG WITH

There are a lot more extroverts in the US than introverts, according to the Myers-Briggs people. So, in a world run by extroverts, introverts are often misunderstood. And vice versa!

Should and extrovert and an introvert date?

That's up to you, but it's good to know which you are, and which you prefer. A lot of times opposites DO attract. Although not everyone is this blunt, you will find hints on a person's profile. Here is one from one of the major online dating sites:

I am a personality whore. Alittle harsh? Definetly. I crave conversation and fun. If you think pouting and standing in the corner thinking you are too good for everyone is attractive we do not have anything in common.

Pardon his English. Extroverts get energy from being with other people (personalities). Generally they can't stand to be alone. Therefore they "crave" being with other people. Since introverts need time alone, they wouldn't understand this and might call it "pouting" or "thinking you're too good for everyone." They often look at introverts as "shy."

Every activity this person listed was people-oriented. No leisure-time pursuits like computer, learning, philosophy or reading. He prefers IM to email and likes phone or in-person even more.

Lots of signs he's an extrovert. It's good to know how to look for these things when you are dating online. Also good to let others know these things about you. Ask the Dating Coach - sdunn@susandunn.cc .