Steve Harvey on How to Get the Man to Marry You

ACT LIKE A LADY, THINK LIKE MAN
My favorite - ladies you'll 'get' this one -

At your job, didn't you have the 90-day rule before benefits??

Notes from the interview with Steve Harvey, author of "Act Like a Lady, Think Like a Man"

Do you have standards for your man?
I can do with you what I
want because you have no standards.
When you saw her you had a plan, you
just haven't informed her what it is.
Right now we're just kickin' it.
There's a cute way to give an ultimatum.
Exact your standards and get
them out early.

A man who loves you will do the 3 Ps:
Profess -
within 6 months you'll have a title from a man (my girlfriend, love, my
fiancee)
Provide - Give you and the kids the money
Protect - No bill
collecter can call and harass you
One of the 3 isn't enough

Will you
be thrown back or are you a keeper??

And, ladies ...

It took him 6 months to think about "the ultimatum".
and she had to walk out first

(PSST!! WHAT HAVE I BEEN TELLING YOU ALL ALONG?)

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What Online Dating Sites Spend the Most on Advertising?

Just got a visit from Kerryon, Suddenly Single Minded. Returning the favor, I visited her blod and found the following:

Great places to meet women in San Francisco - invaluable

And these tips about online dating:

#3. Sign up for on Line Dating - the Top 3 are Match, Yahoo Personals and EHarmony. They spend more money on advertising than the next 10 sites combined. Match is Huge, Eharmonys is as slow as a glacier in December, Yahoo Personals (this is beginning to sound like Goldilocks) is just right…as is Jdate…Catholic Date is too Opus dei…and ohmygod, Atheistdate.com is too trippy…

#4.Once you are On - Up and Running on a Dating Site - For the best results you must:

Flirt 5 times every day.

Send a short - one line- note to - 5 different men - every day. What to say?

Easy~ “Loved reading your profile - we have somethings [sic] in common. Take a look. Hope to hear from you.”

Simple, succinct, polite and inviting. Go ahead - give it a whirl…

If you're dating online, your profile and photo are also uber important. Spend some time on it. It will pay off! Contact me at sdunn@susandunn.cc and let me help you put your best, um, foot forward.

Is there love for you?

I am working with a man now who found the love of his life over a year ago. The trouble is that after he met her and they went together for a while and he was sure of his feelings, he did what guys do. He went into the cave. From her point of view - he just disappared.

What happened is, he had the plan in his mind. An action plan. In order to make his new love happen, he had to go back and finalize his divorce, which he hadn't taken care of several years ago.

So, to his new love's way of thinking - he disappeared.

He asks me, "But doesn't she know I had to finish the business of the divorce?"

No! She didn't. Why? Because he didn't say it. He just went off to do it.

Guys - remember to put words around your actions. And to do what you say you will do. That's one way a woman knows what's going on, and how she checks things out. She wants to make sure what you say (when you say it) isn't just "empty words."

The great thing about this romance is that she has agreed to take him back -- with reservations. She doesn't trust the relationship with him now, so he is working to win her trust back. But the important this is that she is willing to give him a second chance. They have started at the beginning again and are going slower this time.

What is love? Love, ultimately, is trust.

I WANT TO KNOW WHAT LOVE IS ... FOREIGNER