Thursday, May 28, 2009

How to Read People When You're Dating


We all want to know when we're dating or reviewing profiles on the Internet, or reading emails from potentials -- are they telling the truth.

Well this video will give you some good tips on reading other people, and also for better communication on your own part.

Notice it begins with "we all do this" but he's going to show you "how to observe yourself doing it." In other words -- self-awareness. To increase your emotional intelligence and self-awareness, get some coaching with me and take the EQ COURSE. EMail me at sdunn@susandunn.cc . Dating coaching can really help.



This also has good tips for hiring, interviewing, and your personal power presentation.

Wednesday, May 27, 2009

It's Time to Move in Together

A LITTLE HUMOR TODAY.
Enjoy!


Nation's Girlfriends Unveil New Economic Plan: 'Let's Move In Together'

He won't commit? She won't quit nagging? Call me for dating coaching - 817-741-7223.

Dating Coach Blog

I'm a dating coach, so get the chance to listen to a lot of people talk about dating these days. One thing's for sure: it isn't easy!

The thing I hear most often is people saying it's too hard and they want to give up. But they also want to meet someone. So, don't give up! Everyone's looking, everyone thinks it's hard -- we go forward.

If you'd like some tips, call me for dating coaching!

According to a recent article these are the Top 10 Favorite Ways Men Like to Have Someone Flirt with Them. What do you think of this. Guys, do you agree? Gals, has this worked for you?

1. Display concern for him, his feelings and well being
2. Talk about things he likes or dislikes, making comments and showing interest
3. Show him your daring or mischievous side
4. Sends him special/cute email messages
5. Shares jokes or amusing anecdotes with him
6. Compliments him on his screen name, attitude, personality and appearance
7. Make an effort to contact him in some form most every day
8. Send instant messages when he and you are online at the same time
9. Discuss seriously the traits he desires in a partner
10. Use suggestive language in online conversations with him

For Dating Coaching call Susan at 817-734-1471, or email sdunn@susandunn.cc . I am in the D. C. area and also coach by phone and email. Workshops available. Call me if your group wants a speaker.

Friday, May 22, 2009

What's Darwinius Masellae got to do with it?


Found on a dating profile

I like: teal blue, freckles on little girls, well-modulated voices, Carrara marble, Paris street cafes, tenors, playing Chopin, listening to Verdi, Tuscany, limoncello, Amalfi (if you drive), a good kisser, South Padre Island upon occasion, Darwinius Masellae, variety, sunsets, broccoli, lamb, the long twilights in the north, fin de siecle, tour guides like Andrew, burnt sienna, sometimes pina coladas in a hot tub, and that Deruta Uva Fresca Salad Bowl.

I don't like: sunrises, Gaudi, carrots, alarm clocks, 7-hour layovers in Frankfurt, that grease they fry foods in these days in the US, machines that don't work, agendas, SUVs and the women who drive them, mean people, getting pick-pocketed in Barcelona, people who are lactose-intolerant, defective motorcycles, the color lavendar, men who think Colbert's being serious, hearing about movies on historical tours, denouement in relationships, loud noises, nasty surprises and certified mail.


Now that really tells you a lot about the woman, doesn't it. Without going into the I like men with lots of money or I can't stand men who drink and beat me sort of stuff.

Try something like that. It works well!

One of the most important parts of COMPATIBILITY is laughing at the same things, and writing in that way tests a person's sense of humor.

For dating coaching, email me at sdunn@susandunn.cc or call me at 817-734-1471.

Wednesday, May 13, 2009

Want to Have More Orgasms? Increase your Emotional Intelligence

I've been saying this all along. That's why I offer THE EQ COURSE - online, email support, it increases your emotional intelligence, and therefore ...from the Journal of Secual Medicine, a "new" study. But we didn't need science to confirm this, did we?

READ ARTICLE HERE

Excerpts:

Women in touch with emotions have more orgasms - study. Published: Wednesday | May 13, 2009

Want to have more orgasms? Get to know yourself, ladies.

Emotional intelligence, the ability to monitor one's own and others' feelings and emotions, appears to increase the number of orgasms women have, a study by the King's College London's Department of Twin Research and published in the British Journal of Sexual Medicine has concluded.

The study suggests that low emotional intelligence is a potential risk factor for female orgasmic dysfunction, which is the second most frequently reported female sexual problem with two in five women stating to never, or finding it difficult to achieve an orgasm.

A high emotional intelligence level contributes to the ability to achieve orgasm more frequently.

Andrea Burri, psychologist at King's College London and lead author of the study, said, "Emotional intelligence seems to have a direct impact on women's sexual functioning by influencing her ability to communicate her sexual expectations and desires to her partner.

"Our finding that women with high emotional intelligence have significantly more frequent orgasm during masturbation than women with lower emotional intelligence suggests that a woman's feeling of control, or the capacity to integrate physical stimulation with fantasy, may be contributors to orgasm as well as the better knowledge of women's own body," Burri added.

Tim Spector, director of the Twin Research Department and co-author of the study, said, "These findings show that emotional intelligence is an advantage in many aspects of your life, including the bedroom. This study will help enormously in the development of behavioural and cognitive therapies to improve women's sexual lives."


Want to take THE EQ COURSE? Email me at sdunn@susandunn.cc .