Thursday, July 29, 2010

Do You Get Nervous on Dates?

Let's face it, dating in today's world is quite complicated. No matter how good you are at your job, or anything else, dating can really throw you. You can completely lose your composure, and then you're really in trouble.

Here it is from Christian Carter:

If you find yourself losing your composure too often, letting your emotions take over and regretting it too often after the fact... and you're starting to recognize that not all of what you're doing and choosing to do with a man is totally CONSCIOUS... then it's time you took the time and the steps to take care of what's going on INSIDE YOU first.


What's he's talking about here is the emotional intelligence (EQ) competency of SELF-AWARENESS. Not the kind of self-awareness that makes you nervous and overly critical of yourself, but the kind that lets you "have a clue" -- lets you know what you're doing that gets you what you want, and what you're doing that doesn't get you what you want.

As a dating coach, probably the most frequent question I get is "What did I do wrong?" The woman or the man has disappeared, the client is heart-broken, and the processing begins.

Don't despair! This can all be learned. Call me for dating coaching (817-734-1471) or email me at sdunn@susandunn.cc. I am a certified Dating Coach.

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