Men are visual.
For women, it's all about words.
How can you tell when someone is right for you?
Many people say they can tell within the first 5 minutes if this is someone they want to see again.
Can you?
Here are some of the reasons women have told me that made them sure they didn't want to see the guy again. It's about "chemistry," but here it is, broken down. Now, don't be discouraged, because there's one thing for sure -- one man's meat is another man's poison. for every women who wants the door opened for her, there's one who thinks that's "sexist." Guys -- I just want you to see the kinds of things women pay attention to.
He didn't act like a man. He didn't open the door for me, pull my seat out, take charge.
He had on weird clothes.
He couldn't talk about anything. Not a good conversationalist.
He kept looking at other women who walked in.
Dirty fingernails.
Used bad grammar.
Seemed unsure of himself.
Made tacky/sleezy comments.
Asked if I had sex on the second date.
Talked about what was wrong with all the other women he had dated.
He was sad. Just too sad. That guy needed to do a lot of work on himself.
Acted like I was a therapist, not a date.
Cursed.
Was unsure of himself. Couldn't even get himself together enough to get a waiter over to the table.
And here's why you need a dating coach: Woman A: He had on Brooks Brothers. No way. Woman No.2: I like a guy who dresses Brooks Brothers.
Yes, it's confusing. There are some general things that will turn off any but a totally desperate woman. I believe the first thing always mentioned is grooming - being dirty, smelly or unkempt.
For Dating Coaching, email me at sdunn@susandunn.cc. We can work by phone and email, at your office or home, or at my offices - Manassas, VA and Chevy Chase, MD. I've helped thousands of people navigate the trecherous waters of dating in today's world. Special expertise in the hardest age group -- those over 40.
Watch for my new book coming out soon -- "HOW TO GET HIM BACK."
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