How can you tell?

Susan Dunn, the Dating Coach reminds you ...
Men are visual.
For women, it's all about words.

How can you tell when someone is right for you?

Many people say they can tell within the first 5 minutes if this is someone they want to see again.

Can you?

Here are some of the reasons women have told me that made them sure they didn't want to see the guy again. It's about "chemistry," but here it is, broken down. Now, don't be discouraged, because there's one thing for sure -- one man's meat is another man's poison. for every women who wants the door opened for her, there's one who thinks that's "sexist." Guys -- I just want you to see the kinds of things women pay attention to.

He didn't act like a man. He didn't open the door for me, pull my seat out, take charge.
He had on weird clothes.
He couldn't talk about anything. Not a good conversationalist.
He kept looking at other women who walked in.
Dirty fingernails.
Used bad grammar.
Seemed unsure of himself.
Made tacky/sleezy comments.
Asked if I had sex on the second date.
Talked about what was wrong with all the other women he had dated.
He was sad. Just too sad. That guy needed to do a lot of work on himself.
Acted like I was a therapist, not a date.
Cursed.
Was unsure of himself. Couldn't even get himself together enough to get a waiter over to the table.
And here's why you need a dating coach: Woman A: He had on Brooks Brothers. No way. Woman No.2: I like a guy who dresses Brooks Brothers.

Yes, it's confusing. There are some general things that will turn off any but a totally desperate woman. I believe the first thing always mentioned is grooming - being dirty, smelly or unkempt.

For Dating Coaching, email me at sdunn@susandunn.cc. We can work by phone and email, at your office or home, or at my offices - Manassas, VA and Chevy Chase, MD. I've helped thousands of people navigate the trecherous waters of dating in today's world. Special expertise in the hardest age group -- those over 40.

Watch for my new book coming out soon -- "HOW TO GET HIM BACK."

Toby Keith - How Do You Like Me Now?

I love this video because I'm a coach - Toby Keith's HOW DO YOU LIKE ME NOW.

Combine this -- "How Do You Like Me Now" with the Forbes video (http://video.forbes.com/fvn/personalbest/toby-keith-lessons-in-success) where Toby Keith talks about his rise to fame. (He made $52 million in 08).

The first thing he attributes his success to is HARD WORK.

Now, let's face it, dating in today's world is HARD WORK.

If you're struggling with rejection, just got dumped in an email by the man of your dreams who led you on, can't seem to get a good opening line, had a great txt relationship going and now she won't write back ...let me coach you.

LET ME COACH YOU SO YOU CAN SAY 'HOW DO YOU LIKE ME NOW?'

"Mon coeur s'ouvre a ta voix" - Olga Borodina

What it is that men fear so much.

Have you had the experience of dating, and falling in love, and he's falling in love -- you can tell it -- and then he runs. He disappears.

This phenomenon is so wel exhibited in this beautiful aria.

So, ladies, it up to you to remember -- it is YOU who MUST control the pace of the relationship, or he will get scared and run.

Toby Keith- How Do You Like Me Now.

Check out the subtle na-na-na-na in this one.
Hey! Dating is rough. It's all rejection until the day it finally works out, and we have to keep the faith, keep our confidence, and keep at it -- because-- someone out there is looking for you.l

She married into money ... "he never comes home and you're always alone."

Some want money
Some want party
Some want kids
Some want handsome

Keep looking and let me, the Dating Coach, help you.

Being a Beautiful Woman. Good thing or bad thing?

From today's mailbag to the Dating Coach:

Dear Susan Dunn Dating Coach:

I am completely shocked and heart-broken. I dated this guy for over 3 months. He told me I was beautiful .. fantastic ... asked me if I'd been in movies ... said I was the sexiest woman he'd ever been with. Said that men didn't just stare at me, they came right up to me.

Then abruptly he sent me an email breaking it off. Said he wanted to "flatten" the relationship. He's a doctor and I guess that meant "flatline." The whole thing has just made me sick, to have misjudged so much, and I don't want to date again, don't want to put my heart on the line.

Suggestions?

Signed,
Flatlined

Dear Flatlined:

First of all, that's just horrible. I've never heard that term used and it makes me sick to read it. (Were there other clues this guy was a little weird?)

One thing that comes to mind to me here (but I need to talk to you in person) is that this guy was insecure. He mentions other guys coming up to you and how beautiful you are -- either for sure, or to him.

Reminds me of the line, "If you want to be happy for the rest of your life, never make a lovely woman your wife."

My bet, and it's just a hunch is that this guy was a 2-time loser (at least) (am I right?) and very very insecure. He was attracted to your beauty, sex appeal, and YOU, and then got himself scared.

How to prevent this? Anticipate it? Call me for coaching and let's process this every step of the way. There is something to be learned here and I want to help.

Sincerely,
The Dating Coach with the Paddles (LOL)

Can 2 First-Borns Make a Good Pair?

THE DATING COACH coaches internationally by phone and email. I also have offices in Manassas VA and Chevy Chase MD. I'm waiting to help you get the show on the road.


This is the best answer I've heard to that. My client wrote

C: Hey, do you think 2 first-borns can make it as a couple?

HE REPLIED:

Answer...don't see why not as long as I am in charge!! Just kidding, meant as long as you are in charge!! Oops, wrong again!!! Seriously, I think things work as long as there is a mutual respect, understanding and sharing, and a lotta compromise, etc. (Tho, I gotta be careful not to sound too sensitive or I'll lose my card to the "Guys Club!")

We like that part about the "Guys' Club" too. This guy wrote the kind of response you like to get, and are v. likely to answer.

What did my client reply:

ANSWER: ROFL. Best laugh I've had in a week. Let's meet and see if we get along. Wait a minute. You're supposed to be the one asking.

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