One of the things that comes up when we're dating is the subject of exes. Former dates, lovers, partners and spouses.
How do we deal with this?
Well, the less said the better.
If you were hooked up with a Nobel prize winner or a super model, the person is going to feel like they can't compete. If you were hooked up with a loser, they're going to wonder what's wrong with you, your choices, and therefore, what THEY are doing there.
Work with your Dating Coach to come up with responses that don't get you in trouble from the get-go.
We've all got exes. Maybe it's best to leave it at that??
Contact me for coaching if you would like help with this complicated topic - or others that come up, like:
- You've been married TWO times?
- How long do you plan to keep working?
- Wait a minute ... you've been single 20 years??
- How come you never got married (at all)?
- Your marriage only lasted two years?
- Are you willing to relocate?
- We live 500 miles apart. The distance is too great.
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